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If you ask around, some people will tell you to wait for "this many days" before you make contact, but that strategy is flat-out silly.
Dating columnist Dr Nerdlove told us that you should always touch base sooner rather than later.
Texting the cute guy from the gym when he's trying to sleep will turn that "yay she's texting me! While writing the book , comedian Aziz Ansari and Dr Eric Klinenberg, Professor of Sociology at New York University, organised hundreds of focus groups to decipher the modern dating landscape.
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You'll become "that cute girl from the gym" instead of "some girl that I guess I talked to other day?
" What you say in your first text message important (more on that later), but it isn't nearly as important as you actually reaching out. As online dating coach Patrick King explains, they have already given you their number because there is some mutual attraction there, so you don't have to stress as much about the possibility of rejection.
It's much easier to make someone lose interest by being too pushy.
If you're doing most of the talking or all you're getting back are one or two word responses, then you're pushing too hard and they're losing interest.
As Ansari and Dr Klinenberg explain, the "hey" text seems like a perfectly harmless message to send, but that one word says a lot more than you realise. It makes the recipient feel like they're not very special or important, and it makes you as the sender seem the same way.